will you take a third rider??

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   Here is the solution:  Slug line leader asks the driver, "where and how many?"  Leave it up to drivers to state the number of riders they want in their cars.  They know the drill (i.e., they'll say 3 if they see a long line of slugs with no cars and are not opposed to taking 3 for one reason or another).  It's real simple.  Drivers:  if you don't want a third rider in your car because it makes you uncomfortable or you think you're saving on gas, or whatever, just say "two" when the slug leader asks.  No one gets insulted this way.

	Becky

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Rebecca22193 Members Profile Find Members Posts New Slug Joined: 01 Jun 2005 Location: Virginnia Status: Offline Points: 0	Post Options Post Reply Quote Rebecca22193 Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 21 Sep 2005 at 10:55am
	Here is the solution: Slug line leader asks the driver, "where and how many?" Leave it up to drivers to state the number of riders they want in their cars. They know the drill (i.e., they'll say 3 if they see a long line of slugs with no cars and are not opposed to taking 3 for one reason or another). It's real simple. Drivers: if you don't want a third rider in your car because it makes you uncomfortable or you think you're saving on gas, or whatever, just say "two" when the slug leader asks. No one gets insulted this way. Becky

NoSUV Members Profile Find Members Posts New Slug Joined: 14 Jan 2005 Status: Offline Points: 0	Post Options Post Reply Quote NoSUV Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 21 Sep 2005 at 1:20pm
	Or say two - will take a 3rd for $x

goober Members Profile Find Members Posts New Slug Joined: 28 Oct 2004 Location: VA Status: Offline Points: 2	Post Options Post Reply Quote goober Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 21 Sep 2005 at 1:38pm
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bujee33 Members Profile Find Members Posts New Slug Joined: 23 Sep 2005 Location: VA Status: Offline Points: 0	Post Options Post Reply Quote bujee33 Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 23 Sep 2005 at 2:09pm
	I find it very rude that when I pull up in the afternoon on my way home to pick up slugs that I am being asked by riders waiting in line if I can take additional slugs. If the driver pulls up with 2 fingers, that means he only wants 2 riders. Why impose on the driver to take more? The diver is fully aware how many riders he COULD take but may not want that many riders in his vehicle. I don't notice this request being made by riders in the morning. Why in the afternoon? If you can't ask a driver to turn the radio station or put the air or heat on, or even talk for that matter, why should you be allowed to ask the driver to do this? I thought the driver sets all the standards. Just wondering...

N_or_S_bound Members Profile Find Members Posts New Slug Joined: 20 May 2005 Location: VA Status: Offline Points: 0	Post Options Post Reply Quote N_or_S_bound Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 23 Sep 2005 at 2:16pm
	Bujee, I'm a driver, you're a driver. The driver does set the "standards". If you perceive them as rude, then so be it. People aren't changed from being rude by being rude back though. I much prefer to shower those who do ride with kindness than try to pull some power trip and jerk them out of rudeness by being rude back. Your call, do as you please. As for me, I prefer to focus on the positives in life---like---hey, it's FRIDAY! No commuting for 2 days in a row. Enjoy your weekend and enjoy your commute. NoSb SOV because you can, HOV because you care!

bujee33 Members Profile Find Members Posts New Slug Joined: 23 Sep 2005 Location: VA Status: Offline Points: 0	Post Options Post Reply Quote bujee33 Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 23 Sep 2005 at 2:37pm
	Agree. Never did I mention being rude to any rider. I just don't want to be in a position where I would appear to be rude by denying their request. As a sidenote, I have never refused when asked, but just don't think its appropriate.

N_or_S_bound Members Profile Find Members Posts New Slug Joined: 20 May 2005 Location: VA Status: Offline Points: 0	Post Options Post Reply Quote N_or_S_bound Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 23 Sep 2005 at 2:58pm
	Agreed on all accounts! NoSb SOV because you can, HOV because you care!

Rosebud Members Profile Find Members Posts New Slug Joined: 15 Jun 2004 Location: va Status: Offline Points: 0	Post Options Post Reply Quote Rosebud Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 24 Sep 2005 at 11:01am
	Well I hate to be the "sticky wicket" but here goes. When I drive, I wont take three because I am not a taxi. The only reason why I pick up slugsters is to drive in the HOV lanes. I take the minimum. I dont like strangers in my car or people who have nasty body odors. I dont like people who snore, cell phone chat or fart in my car. Now you can see why there are so many hybrids on the HOV. sorry slugsters. Notice I am a lot nicer than 122. At least I dont ask for tips.

sluDgE Members Profile Find Members Posts Master Slug Joined: 27 Oct 2003 Status: Offline Points: 501	Post Options Post Reply Quote sluDgE Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 26 Sep 2005 at 7:18am
	Bud, You sound like a really pleasant person to be around. I hope your life is happier than it appears to be from your posting. Don't worry, be happy. .. and don't be a snobby bitch. Be nice, y'hear. Keep on sluggin!

SlugR Members Profile Find Members Posts New Slug Joined: 04 Aug 2005 Location: VA Status: Offline Points: 0	Post Options Post Reply Quote SlugR Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 26 Sep 2005 at 8:09am
	As one who slugs 95% of the time and drives 5%, I agree with RB that when I drive I'm not a taxi. If the weather's bad or the line is exceptionally long I may take a third, but it's a rare exception. When I slug, I prefer the driver only take the minimum as well. Slugging is by far the the most comfortable, convenient way to get up the HOV--anyone who wants an uncomfortable ride stacked up with other passengers inside your personal space should take public transportation. Bottom line-- it's up the driver, so just wait your turn.