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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote gsm Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 26 Sep 2003 at 1:41pm
With respect, you are still missing the point, but no matter.

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[br]No I’m just saying that as people do things and other people say that it’s ok. If we do that then what type of example are we setting for our children? Etiquette is something you teach. In this case you don’t say if you don’t have manners then no recess, you just simple call it what it is poor manners and not make excuses for it. Period!

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote suchaladie Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 26 Sep 2003 at 1:09pm
No I’m just saying that as people do things and other people say that it’s ok. If we do that then what type of example are we setting for our children? Etiquette is something you teach. In this case you don’t say if you don’t have manners then no recess, you just simple call it what it is poor manners and not make excuses for it. Period!
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Maylo Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 26 Sep 2003 at 12:47pm
I believe you missed the point. As an adult in many situations, such as the slugging system, you CANNOT control the behavior of others. The point is that anger will only hurt you. When you are an adult, what is it that you propose to do? Tell people there will be no recess if they don't act the way YOU want them to?

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[br]I have slugged a few times in my life I now drive my self and I must say after hearing what every one has had to say about courtesy and managers. I'm sorry that some people feel that we should just except that people don’t all ways do the right thing or behave in the right manner. I could and would expect that from a person who may have been educated in another country or have a different back ground but as my daughter once said to me as we watched grown adults cut in line at an exit. She said mommy did these people not go to school? I said why you ask me that honey she said they could not have gone to school because in school they teach us to wait our turn in line and not to cut in -front of other people. Did they not teach that to them what was I to answer that grown adult don't have to follow the very rules that we teach our children. So I say to you what I said to her, don't you have that one person in class that does not follow the rules. She said yes.... I said that is the same child that grows up and still never follows the rules. Then my daughter said do the continue to get in trouble and my answer to her was yes they do until other people start making excuse then that lets them off the hook.

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote suchaladie Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 26 Sep 2003 at 12:39pm
I have slugged a few times in my life I now drive my self and I must say after hearing what every one has had to say about courtesy and manners. I'm sorry that some people feel that we should just except that people don’t all ways do the right thing or behave in the right manner.[V] I could and would expect that from a person who may have been educated in another country or have a different back ground but as my daughter once said to me as we watched grown adults cut in line at an exit.[:(] She said mommy did these people not go to school? I said why you ask me that honey she said they could not have gone to school because in school they teach us to wait our turn in line and not to cut in -front of other people. Did they not teach that to them? What was I to answer[?] That grown adult don't have to follow the very rules that we teach our children. So I say to you what I said to her, don't you have that one person in class that does not follow the rules? She said yes.... I said that is the same child that grows up and still never follows the rules.[:0] Then my daughter said do the continue to get in trouble and my answer to her was yes they do[:)] until other people start making excuse then that lets them off the hook.[:(]
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Mit Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 28 Aug 2003 at 12:36pm
Tilmer and NoNo: You all are right and it makes me think that in recent years, I am actually a bit surprised when someone shows courtesy when it should be the other way around. We should be surprised when someone is rude, but it has become so commonplace. The other day a man held out his hand to help me out of an SUV, and I had to contain myself from kissing him right on the lips!!! I was so impressed with this guy for that one simple act. I'm with you all on the chilling out -- not accepting -- but chilling out.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote NoNo Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 22 Aug 2003 at 10:53am
That's true. I have had other male riders leave me alone at the line, jump in front of me to get into the same car, etc. All I can do is control my reaction to the situation. Doesn't make me like what this person did, but at least other people were there to show that not all people are discourteous.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Tilmer Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 21 Aug 2003 at 12:14pm
NoNo: With regards to giving a "thank you": You're a courteous person which is definitely a plus. I believe the point of the others is that we cannot (and have no right to) control whether others meet our definition of courteous. We'll drive ourselves crazy, otherwise. Much more humane and decent to chill out and not expect others to behave the way we do or think we should.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote NoNo Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 21 Aug 2003 at 12:03pm
I thank everyone that drives me, morning and afternoon. Its the way I was brought up, and it never occured to ask who is providing whom with the courtesy. Someone gave me a ride, I say thank you.
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"Is this a gender difference? A generational thing?" Gender difference? Deffinitely NOT. Generational difference? I don't think so, but maybe a LITTLE (very little).
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote JiggaJynx Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 20 Aug 2003 at 1:45pm
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[br]Maybe HE is thinking, "Why didn't the driver thank ME?" Point is, this is sooooo minor. I find your judging and re-judging of this guy disgusting. Who are YOU to propose that you know the proper way for others to act. Try relaxing and not expecting out of others what you THINK is the correct way for others to behave. You don't set life rules and interpretations Good grief!!!




Wow, I had no idea so many people had been brought up lacking the ability to be courteous. Is this a gender difference? A generational thing? A few weeks ago, the oil light came on in the car I was riding in, just about two blocks from the Rosslyn Metro. The driver, in spite of his worries about his car, asked kindly if we would mind getting out there. Both of us riders offered to call someone for him, but he declined the offer. It took so little effort to be kind all around.
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